I have a 60d!!! :-) It really is a fantastic camera, I can't recommend it enough. I had a Nikon D50 before and it truly beats it in every way. The articulating screen is fantastic and I don't think I could buy another DSLR that didn't have one. The size of the 60d is perfect and it feels well built. One of the main reasons I chose the 60d was the top lcd display, as I was used to using this type of screen for changing aperture ect.. on my nikon and knew how much I hated trawling though menus on the back lcd. I would say that the 60d is closer to the 7d in size and features. Apparently it uses the same low pass filter of the 7d too.
From what I have heard compact flash is faster, that is why most of the pro SLRs use it with there fast 7fps+ speed. I've never had any issue it feeling fast and to be honest it cant be that slow as it handles recording 1080p full hd video recording. One thing you must do though is buy a SD card that is either class 6 or 10 as these are the fastest and are needed when recording full HD video.
My honest opinion is to go to your local camera shop and try it out for yourself. I have found that a lot of the sales assistants in the shops have been quite anti the 60d.. I don't know why, because I think it is an excellent camera.