Very simple.
Though you do not give a lot of information, the end answer one way or another is that at the end of the day your subject, i.e. your model has too much light on her.
What you need to do is meter the scene, ambient light, that in the background and that falling on the foreground or wherever and then dial the right settings into your flash to balance things.
At the same time you'll need to balance the exposure between the short duration of the flash and the possibly longer shutter requirements for the background.
Paul
www.photographybyriddell.co.uk