ok i'l give a more serious answer rather than a one liner altrhough the one line answer isnt that far off
most bird photography starts off as a matter of record
once you have photo's of a particular species ones you are happy with you then think about photographing the same species in a more creative way
when a person asks what appeture should i use it usually means they are still in the matter of record stage ( literelly ponting the camera at the bird and pressing the button before it flies off ) any body who has photographed birds to any extent have all been there ( i know i have ) so setting the camera at say f4 what will we get ??
as you can see from this first photo taken at 1/800th of a second at F4 the head and eye is in nice sharp focus but this soon drops off by the time we get to the further end of the body making the tail completly out of focus
bear in mind the long tailed tit has one of the smallest bodies of all british birds
another at around 1/300th of a second at f4 shows because the bird is side on all the bird is in sharp focus leavin a nice blur to the background so F4 would be quite acceptable in these cicumstances
at F7.1 the whole of the bird is in sharp focus if the bird was shot at F4 part of the bird would be out of focus because of the angle
these photo's are of the smaller species we come accross if we were photographing something larger to keep the whole bird in focus we would have to keep an apeture of at least f7 or above
this is demonstrated in the next photo taken at 1/250th of a second at F7 of a pheasant where most of the body is in focus but drops off by the time you get to the tail
hope this gives you more of an insight of what happens at different appeture settings
so... like i said in my first post F4 to F8 should do the job