Hi Scabzilla (wonderful handle BTW!)
For your £200-£250 budget I would buy one of the following:
Canon Powershot SX200 IS. It comes in black, blue or red, costs around £240, does HD video and has a 12x zoom which starts at 28mm (usefully wide).
Panasonic DMC-TZ7. It comes in black, silver, red or brown, costs about £260 (so a fraction over budget), does HD video and has a 12x zoom which starts at an even more helpful 25mm.
Panasonic DMC-TZ6. Basically the same as the TZ7 but whithout HD video recording and, therefore, cheaper at about £190.
There is nothing wrong with the other cameras you've mentioned
per se but for your money and the list of things you want (wide angle lens, good zoom and not too big) these are the best options on the market.
If it was me, I'd buy the TZ7. I know it's a tenner over budget but it's worth it - a corking little camera.