Hello pixiegirl and welcome to the forum.
First things first, a stop is a unit of exposure or a measurement of light. When you adjust either the size of the aperture or the length of time the shutter is to open this is measured in stops of light.
You will notice that when you're shooting in Aperture Priority Mode and you go to adjust the size of the aperture, each click of the control wheel is the equivalent to a third of one stop. So every three clicks of that wheel will adjust the aperture by one stop. Likewise, when you do this, you will also see the shutterspeed change by the same amount in the opposite direction to balance the exposure, because your camera will decide how much light needs to pass through the lens and on to the sensor to correctly expose the image. This is a set amount, so by opening the aperture wider you let more light into the lens and it takes a shorter length of time for that amount of light to hit the sensor.
The other influence on exposure is the sensitivity of the sensor itself. This is termed the ISO. ISO is also measured in stops of light and again it is calibrated in third of a stop incriments. So again every third incriment you click to will be one stop higher or lower than where you started from.
I hope that is now a little clearer for you. The next step is understanding whatelse happens when you decide to open up the aperture from a very small hole to a very large hole!