Not really contributing to the original question, but I thought I'd just add an example of a good wedding photographer - one whose work is so superior to mine that I wouldn't even dream of trying to emulate it -
Bella West (who works from Shaftesbury, Dorset). I've met her on a few occasions and seen her at work - and now she even teaches professionals!
Have a look, also, at the fees charged - e.g. up to 3500 pounds for a day's shooting. And, you know what? If you've got the money, she's worth it.